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Growing up together(: @ Monday, November 9, 2009, 7:13 AM

Hello blog! Long time no see. Kinda lazy to blog out my feelings and stuff. Waiting for my mentee to reply my message. So i'll blog a bit.

Lots to blog. Last lesson with my mentee last wednesday. A bit sad. But hey u gotta let kids fly right.(: I'll be there to support her till she needs me no more.

Today's topic is on growing up.

Done quite a lot of growing up for the past 1.5 years. Ups and downs... Many lessons that i went through that wouldn't make me who i am today. Generally a pleasant experience because i have moved forward , for the better.

But anyway the focal point of this entry is growing up together.

I would like to remember this very unique experience with my very close friend Hui Fen.

Rewind back 3 years when we were still studying in the same school. Things came very naturally. We shared same interests and hobbies. I grew to be attached to her.

As we grew older, we kept in contact. In fact, we became even closer till one day we realised we weren so similar anymore. She grew to love cosplays and animes while i grew to love MSN even more. LOL.

Initially when we went out with our usual secondary clique, sometimes i wondered do i even belong there. Have i changed so much that i could no longer identify with them?Sometimes i felt like there was nothing to say. It was a rather scary thought.

But then i came to realise something i didn't see that was there before.

Everyone is growing up. Going on to the next stage of life. Pursuing dreams and interests. Time to fly, time to grow(:

The trick is if you want to carry over your relationship for one phrase of life to the next. Its not a granted thing. It takes effort on both sides to make it work.

Who said love friendships and relationships are just about feel? They come with a lot of communication and effort too! If not misunderstandings arise and a wonderful pure friendship is destroyed just like that. What a waste!

When my friend knew how i felt, ( cux i told her when she asked me) she felt very sorry and all..

But Whos really at fault it doesn matter. Theres no fault anyway in my opinion. Taking about that, in a treasured relationship who cares whos at fault. Everyone makes mistakes , the bottom line is is this relationship worthwhile? And how much do i value it?

Growing up isn't just about increasing numbers and days. Its so much more. Growing up together is never easy, was never easy and will never be easy.

To me growing up together is appreciating each other's change. Supporting each other, remembering the core reason why you felt that spark in your friendship in the first place. Growing up together is to watch each other grow. To give each other the space to grow and no matter what changes(unless the person becomes so damn different in personality and thinking and doesn rmb u as a freind- den its time to move on) , always remember the person inside who you were always close to.

Happy growing up togther! No matter who you may choose to grow up with(:

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